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It’s good to get things off your chest. Inevitably, during the course of a project things will annoy you. A customer will insist on something stupid, a college will make a hash of something which will add to your work load, a member of your team will do something daft and you will have to pick up the pieces, you will release that you had not thought something through or that you have cut a corner to save time and it’s made everything take three times as long as it should.

It happens. But how you deal with these situations will have a big impact on, not only your project, but your general state of mind too.

A wise man once said

There is an old proverb that goes something like this; “don’t let the sun go down on an argument”. This is good advice; not only for the sake of the relationship involve but also because we all know that you generally feel better when the air is cleared. The same principle needs to be applied here.

There may not have been an actual argument or disagreement but somehow somebody has gotten under your skin and you can feel the tension and frustration building. Of course, it is not always appropriate to ‘have it out’ with the person involved. After all, an offended client is likely to only make your situation worse. A disgruntled team member is not really very likely to up their game either. And after all, your boss may just fire you *smile*.

Get it all out

However, you need to do something. If you are getting increasingly frustrated and don’t have a vent then your productivity, creativity, and general happiness will very quickly hit a downward curve.

At Headscape; amongst the Project Managers at least, we have the concept of the rant line. Essentially, when  something has ‘gotten our goat’ we can call one of the other PM’s and rant.  It’s great! It makes you feel so much better.

This is an informal, and somewhat tongue in cheek, arrangement but it is a concept that is worth considering.

Some organisations have a more formal system. The idea of ‘buddies’, or some sort of mentoring or accountability. The system is tweaked to the situation but the idea is the same. A safe place to unload, without fear of reprisals. To be open and honest. To clear the air when there is no other sensible outlet.

If you let such frustrations build up; your project suffers, your team suffers, and ultimately, you suffer. So don’t let things get you down. Call the rant line! *smile*